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Wednesday, October 7, 2009

A spirited life - HT InnerVoice

 
THERE IS DEFINITE SCOPE AND STEPS TO RECONSTRUCT ONE'S WOUNDED SELF-ESTEEM
M.R. Dua

There are moments in one's life when one feels incapacitated to achieve one's cherished goal.
The possibility is that such failures may lead one into negative thinking. During such moments, one would do well to remember that no one in this world is born with qualities that keep one always in high spirit.
And, as someone had said, low self- esteem in life is like driving with the hand-brake on.

There is always a hope for those who are low-esteem victims. It could happen because of various reasons. But there is definite scope and steps to reconstruct one's wounded self-esteem. Extra emphasis on self-strengths and less on visible weaknesses is one sure way to come out of a low.

Interpersonal interaction with friends, spouse, co-workers, relatives, could also work as excellent therapy.

One can endeavour to develop and nurture high selfesteem promptly in one's budding years by a balanced sense of self-worth, namely, by furnishing equal space for work, intimate relationships, lovability, and social networking.

Rediscovering one's romantic moments offers yet another unfailing support in buoying up one's stooping spirits.

Yet another way is to recognise and identify the deficient areas of one's personality.
Perhaps it could be one's impatient nature to tackle tough situations at one's workplace, with friends, relations or in public dealings. Learn to handle such contingencies tactfully, thoughtfully and cleverly.

And keep in mind that those whom you envy today could have been once in your spot.

Any way, one must realise the truth that one can't be blessed with everything in life.
One has to do the best with what one is gifted with, and be happy. One must learn to make the optimum use of one's talents.

That alone would help one out of one's problems. Most of the great men in history were mere ordinary human beings, or even failures, initially. They earned name and fame because of their grit and determination to succeed against all kinds of odds.


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